Posted by Chuck Kechter on January 26, 2010 at 01:42 PM in Health, Wellness, Science, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
This is a video that was submitted in a contest by a 20-year old. The contest was titled "u @ 50" by AARP. This video won second place. When they showed it, everyone in the room was awe-struck and broke into spontaneous applause. So simple and yet so brilliant. Take a minute and watch it.
Posted by Chuck Kechter on January 07, 2010 at 11:17 AM in Current Affairs, Family, Politics, Weblogs, World Affairs | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
Last year (2009) was another stressful year, what with the continuation of the financial dumb-fuckery of 2008 (WMR, SEC, CO State Attorney General) as well as not being able to find a job for most of the first part of last year (my employment at Gold’s Gym started in Sept09). Add in that the job I did get as a personal trainer barely keeps me employed, and that because of that – for only the second time in my personal history – I make so little money as to be laughable. Kari’s job, while a bit more financially secure is still not “all that it could be.”
Then there were the deaths that seem to define the year. 2009 saw the passing of Kari’s dad Jim Poor and our beloved greyhound Boone. One death would have been bad enough… Two was massive overkill.
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As I do every year I went back and reviewed my goals for the previous year… And surprisingly I met 95% (or so) of them… I also found that several (especially those relating to what I thought of as financial and career) that I had written weren’t goals at all, but rather, “things to do.” They didn’t really further any growth in those areas of my life, except to perhaps simplify those areas.
Anyway… Since I can't go back in the past and have a "do over," all I can do, is pick myself up, dust myself off and get back to it…
For 2010, it is going to be a return to the basics: family, health/training, financial security, personal development, creative development and fun.
To do this the first thing is I am going to do is: plan my work and then work the plan…
Family
Back to basics: spend as much quality time with my wonderful wife Kari and daughter Kyanne as possible. Be as involved with them in their lives as I can be.
Health/Training
Health
Not much to change in this area overall… I will keep up and improve (where needed) my nutrition/diet, get appropriate sleep, drink plenty of water, see my medical team when needed. Et cetera… In other words tighten up what needs to be tightened and continue on mindfully with the rest.
Training
I am going to keep on with two goals from last year: "feeling great and feeling infinite energy.”
I will accomplish this through the continued training of the various energy systems, staying uninjured, as well as continuing to remove restrictive forces through the judicious use of training tools such as yoga…
Practice
I have three areas here I want to focus on in 2010. The first is to continuing to practice/train to get my BJJ brown belt (while keeping my standup, clinch and weapon-based skills as best I can)…
The second is to learn/practice the two remaining Prasara Yoga flows I have yet to learn: Diving Dolphin and Spider Monkey…
And the third is to begin work on a variety of hand balancing.
These last two areas are just for fun/education and because I want to. They in no way have any correlation with the training I will be doing to support my Jiu-Jitsu habit (as well as other aspects of my life).
Competition
Any competition done this year will only be with my trusted coaches and teammates during drilling, sparring, rolling and FoF.
Financial Security
Kari and I looked into and set up a handful of home-based businesses last year. None of which are doing much of anything. Most of that is our fault – we haven’t done hardly any REAL marketing of our businesses anywhere. So, that is one thing I am going to change… And in engaging that new marketing, I hope to start to bring in more revenue for our household – the goal being financial independence.
Businesses as of December 2009:
The Host ShipAlong with increasing our marketing, I am going to develop (more) digital art for Dark Alley Designs.
For commodities trading: be mindful of the trade – i.e. plan my work and then work the plan. As well as remain mindful of the trades I make (keeping stops tight, doing the numbers, et cetera…). My financial goal here is to bring in AT LEAST $10,000 this year.
Personal Training: There are two avenues I am going to work this year. 1) Is to be the best PT I can be while in the employ of Gold’s Gym. Meeting or exceeding my clientele’s goals… 2) Develop my own practice – look into PT offices, doctor’s offices, chiropractor’s offices et cetera to set up my own “shop”… Or possibly out of my home… I have to research this to see which might be the better fit.
I doubt I will make much money off the Examiner columns… So I am changing my focus to using the columns to become recognized as a fitness subject matter expert.Personal Development
Continuation of reading and writing (for learning), along with (more) consistent meditation.
Creative Development
Back to basics: more writing – I am going to shoot for 500 words per day (M-F). Along with that, I am going to devote more time to visual arts (drawing, painting, digital art).
Fun
*See family time. Also I am going to add more outdoors activities (when the weather cooperates)… The last thing I would add here is: like the definition of porn: “I’ll know it when I see it.”
Note:
And lastly: I am going to do my best to NOT be overly influenced by people in perceived positions of authority -- no matter the venue. As I have found that, over the last few years, I have let those types of individuals derail aspects of my life -- to fulfill their agenda(s) -- and not mine... And it NEVER turns out well for me...
I am the ultimate authority over my life, no one else. I take responsibility for it! And it is more than past time I remind those “persons of authority” of that fact!
So, onwards and upwards!
Posted by Chuck Kechter on January 05, 2010 at 01:43 PM in Current Affairs, Family, Health, Wellness, Weblogs, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
Tom Waits singing it as only he can... Perfect reflection of life and grace from the noir of the world...
Merry Christmas!
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 24, 2009 at 10:38 PM in Music, Religion | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
New Examiner Article is live: Muscle Building Part 1: Ingredients
Enjoy!
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 21, 2009 at 04:00 PM in Food and Drink, Health, Wellness, Science, Sports, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
One of my favorite Christmas tales... Written by Neil Gaiman, and finally put out in video format:
Enjoy!
Ho, Ho, Ho...
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 21, 2009 at 12:43 PM in Books, Fantasy, Goofiness, Religion, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
From Jay on FB...
Thanks Jay!
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 19, 2009 at 11:48 PM in Current Affairs, Fantasy, Film, Goofiness, Television | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
My new Examiner Article is up: Foundational Core Exercises
Check it out, and as always please let me know what you think!
Ciao for now.
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 08, 2009 at 12:22 PM in Current Affairs, Health, Wellness, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
Me, Jim Poor and Judy Poor in Germany June 12, 2004
Jim (Papa) Poor
I first met Jim Poor about 10 years ago when I started dating his daughter -- now my wife -- Kari. I was a bit nervous to meet him. Kari had told me a few stories of his meeting past boyfriends... Meetings that rarely went well for the boys...
For my part, I think we bonded pretty easily. We had a lot in common (as well as a lot that was vastly different). He had been an athlete in his youth, competing in football and Judo. He also played some baseball, basketball and racketball till injuries slowed him down. His knees and lower back gave him some problems as he got older.
He was a big guy, about my height but outweighing me by 50 or 60lbs. He filled the better part of a doorway with his breadth. He had the biggest hands of anyone I've ever met... Easily outpacing mine by 1/2 or 3/4's-of-an-inch in length (and I have fairly large hands). His fingers and palms were at least double in thickness to my own.
Along with athletics and sports we bonded over cooking, gardening, and some woodworking -- which while I don't do -- my dad did, so I had an appreciation of it.
He was a very good craftsman, making several things we have in our household. Towel racks, decorative shelving, trivets, a piano bench, et cetera...
The main thing we bonded over was his daughter Kari and granddaughter Kyanne. I think he knew and responded to how much I loved them. Like any dad he wanted only the best for his child (and grandchild). And I strive every day to give them that... And he knew it.
Jim Poor passed away after a six week bout with advanced liver cancer.
He will be missed more than words can convey.
Posted by Chuck Kechter on December 03, 2009 at 01:18 PM in Current Affairs, Family | Permalink | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0)
My new Examiner article is live: The Day After Thanksgiving Day Workout
Enjoy!
Posted by Chuck Kechter on November 27, 2009 at 05:05 PM in Health, Wellness, Writing | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

